Things That Worked

Strategies, activities, and approaches that helped or continue to help my sobriety.

Work in Progress: This list is still being built — many more entries are on the way. Check back often.
This is my own personal list — not a recommendation or medical advice. What worked for me may not work for you. Every person in recovery is different. These are the specific things that have helped my sobriety over 9+ years.

Activities and Approaches

A broader set of activities I incorporated into my program:

Attending AA Meetings
  • Discussion
  • Speaker
  • Big Book
  • Home Group
  • Service Work
  • Upon Awakening
  • Took notes and did research when I got home
Audio Sobriety Recordings
  • Speaker Recordings
  • Podcasts
  • Sobriety Videos
Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Talk Therapy
  • Group Therapy
  • DBSA (Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance)
Bible Study
  • Podcasts
  • Videos
  • Reading
  • Audio Reading
12 Steps
  • Upon Awakening
  • Handing our flaws over to God
  • Traditional AA sponsorship
Meditation
  • Solo Meditation
  • Solo Prayer
  • Group Meditation and Prayer
  • Devotion
  • 24 Hours a Day
Church
  • Bible Studies
  • Christian Support Groups
  • Church Services
  • Church Service Projects
  • Volunteer Work
Medical
  • Prescriptions
  • Psychiatrist
  • Antabuse
  • Naltrexone
  • A few newer options
Vitamins
  • B Complex
  • Electrolytes
  • A few other options
Community
  • Support Groups
  • Community Service Projects
  • Volunteer Work
Professional Facilities
  • Detox Center
  • In-Patient Rehab Treatment
  • Out-Patient Rehab Treatment
  • Sober Living
  • Respite
Recovery Groups
  • Celebrate Recovery
  • Alcoholics Anonymous
  • SMART Recovery
Sponsorship and Peer Support
  • Continue to call and leave message or talk to sponsor every day
  • Started having sponsees calling every day and talk to sponsor when help is needed
  • Peer Support (See CPS-AD)
Personal Health
  • Exercise
  • Healthy Food
  • Hydration
  • Consistent Sleep
New Friends
  • Find in AA
  • Find in Support Groups
Animals
  • Therapy Cats
  • Therapy Dogs
  • Service Dogs
  • Emotional Support Animals
Diet
  • High protein
  • Candy during cravings
  • Coffee during cravings
  • Chocolate during cravings
  • Healthy diet
  • Substantial water
  • Weight loss
  • Wegovy
  • Small frequent meals
  • Do not skip meals
  • Omega-3s (fish, fish oil)
Do Not Go to Work Outings with Alcohol
  • Sugar
  • Chocolate
  • Coffee
  • Keep some candy in pocket
Burning Desire
  • Take an Uber if unable to drive
  • Go to a meeting immediately
  • Call sponsor immediately
  • Get help ASAP

Triggers

Common triggers and rules I follow to protect my sobriety.

Emotional Triggers
  • Boredom
  • Stress
  • Resentments
  • Fears
  • Anger
Alcohol in the Home
  • Keeping alcohol in the house
  • Keeping an in-home bar
  • Accepting an alcohol gift
  • Friends who bring their own alcohol
  • Throw parties with drinking theme
  • Keeping non-alcoholic beverages at home
Hidden Alcohol
  • Mouthwash contains alcohol
  • Hand sanitizer contains alcohol
  • Desserts like tiramisu
  • Dips like beer cheese soup
  • Sauces like steak sauce
  • Some OTC medications
  • Some prescription medications
  • Other addictive substances
Social Situations
  • Leave as soon as people bring out alcohol
  • Bars
  • Pubs
  • Taverns
  • Clubs
  • Happy hours
  • Family drinking events
  • Sports bars
  • Airplanes
  • Events with drinking buddies
Media Forces Alcohol Everywhere
  • TV
  • Movies
  • Commercials
  • Video games
  • Billboards