Things That Worked

Strategies, activities, and approaches that helped or continue to help my sobriety.

This is my own personal list — not a recommendation or medical advice. What worked for me may not work for you. Every person in recovery is different. These are the specific things that have helped my sobriety over 9+ years.

Quick Strategies

Practical things I kept in mind day to day:

Sugar
Chocolate
Coffee
Keep some candy in pocket
Avoid hand sanitizer
Reach out to your sponsor every day
Go to meetings every day
Take a different path home
Never go to your old bar
Take an Uber if unable to drive
Go to a meeting immediately when a burning desire hits
Call sponsor immediately when a burning desire hits
Get help ASAP for burning desires

Activities and Approaches

A broader set of activities I incorporated into my program:

Attending AA Meetings
  • Discussion
  • Speaker
  • Big Book
  • Home Group
  • Service Work
  • Upon Awakening
  • Took notes and did research when I got home
Audio Sobriety Recordings
  • Speaker Recordings
  • Podcasts
  • Sobriety Videos
Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Talk Therapy
  • Group Therapy
Bible Study
  • Podcasts
  • Videos
  • Reading
  • Audio Reading
12 Steps
  • Upon Awakening
  • Handing our flaws over to God
  • Traditional AA sponsorship
Meditation
  • Solo Meditation
  • Solo Prayer
  • Group Meditation and Prayer
  • Devotion
Church
  • Bible Studies
  • Christian Support Groups
  • Church Services
  • Church Service Projects
  • Volunteer Work
Medical
  • Prescriptions
  • Psychiatrist
Vitamins
  • B Complex
  • Electrolytes
  • A few other options
Medications
  • Antabuse
  • A few newer options
Community
  • Support Groups
  • Community Service Projects
  • Volunteer Work
Professional Facilities
  • Detox Center
  • In-Patient Rehab Treatment
  • Out-Patient Rehab Treatment
  • Sober Living
  • Respite
Recovery Groups
  • Celebrate Recovery
  • Alcoholics Anonymous
  • SMART Recovery
Sponsorship and Peer Support
  • Continue to call and leave message or talk to sponsor every day
  • Started having sponsees calling every day and talk to sponsor when help is needed
  • Peer Support (See CPS-AD)
Personal Health
  • Exercise
  • Healthy Food
  • Hydration
  • Consistent Sleep
Alternatives
  • Sugar
  • Chocolate
  • Coffee
  • Keep some candy in pocket
New Friends
  • Find in AA
  • Find in Support Groups
New Hobby or Skill
  • Sugar
  • Chocolate
  • Coffee
  • Keep some candy in pocket
Animals
  • Therapy Cats
  • Service Dogs

Situation-Specific Strategies

My list of 100+. Not advice.

Ask AI
  • List of excuses
  • Chocolate
Attending AA Meetings
  • Avoid hand sanitizer
  • Reach out to your sponsor every day
  • Go to meetings every day
Do Not Go to Work Outings with Alcohol
  • Sugar
  • Chocolate
  • Coffee
  • Keep some candy in pocket
Driving
  • Take a different path home
Food
  • Never go to your old bar
Burning Desire
  • Take an Uber if unable to drive
  • Go to a meeting immediately
  • Call sponsor immediately
  • Get help ASAP