The Oxford Group was a Christian fellowship founded by Frank Buchman in the early 20th century. Their Four Absolutes were a set of moral standards used as a benchmark for self-examination — to determine if one's thoughts and actions were aligned with God's will. They directly and heavily influenced the foundational principles of Alcoholics Anonymous and the 12-Step recovery program.
The Four Absolutes
Absolute Honesty
Refraining from lying, cheating, or stealing in any form, whether in word or deed. It involves being completely truthful with oneself, others, and God.
Absolute Purity
Maintaining purity of mind, body, and motives. This was often interpreted as avoiding resentments, selfish desires, and maintaining moral integrity.
Absolute Unselfishness
Seeking what is right for others before seeking what is right for oneself. It means putting the needs of the community and others above personal ambition or greed.
Absolute Love
A commitment to loving God and loving one's neighbor, unconditionally. This involves acting with compassion and letting go of hatred, prejudice, or retaliation.